Oh my gosh, I just saw my sister skipped her breakfast again! This is the fourth time in this week that I saw her do that and I don’t think that she is on a diet. Remember, even if you are on a diet, you should never skip breakfast because it is the most important meal of the meals. You can skip lunch or dinner but never breakfast. She can’t be on a diet because she is too thin to look at and I know that she doesn’t even need it. I have to know what is on her mind and ask her as soon as she comes home. She knows me, I don’t want people skipping on food just because they are on a diet. I have to investigate her.
I have a week of vacation and I loved it. Just lying in bed and watch all the movies I can probably watch all day, but I still exercise and eat on time. I talked to my sister about what I saw for the past couple of days and she said that she is always in a hurry so she had to skip a meal. She has a little point though because I know how things work for her job so I just thought of helping her out on this matter. I discovered this healthy snack bars that you can buy now in the market. Once I had a bite on it, I must say that this is the best tasting protein par. I told her that it is alright not to eat at home but while she is driving to the office or somewhere, she can have the best protein bars so that she will not miss a thing.
My father was on the phone and talking to someone about Precast Concrete that he was trying to order. There were also Precast Concrete Septic Tanks that he was talking about and I don’t know why he need them for. I know that concrete is use to build big buildings and my father has stopped doing that for over three years now. I showed up to his face and act like nothing is wrong because nothing is really wrong but his reaction was phenomenal. I think he thought that I was listening or I have listened to what he was saying to the person on the other line.
I ask him what was wrong about that and he admitted to me that he is back in building large buildings and accepted an offer from a friend who is dear to him. He promised to stop working from this because I am concerned about his health. he is too old already to be working in huge areas and I don’t want him to get in to any accident. He said that he was just doing this, for the last time, to give back the dignity in himself because he did not leave any legacy in his career and he thinks that this is the right time for it.
I saw this online service about cheap web conferencing and thought of the time when my mother used to do that with his doctor from Europe. Since my mother at that time cannot travel due to her illness, her doctor tried to still reach her through this device. It was an amazing thing that the doctor did for her even if they are miles away, she still thought of the welfare of my mother. They met here in one of the biggest hospitals in the city and when the time that the doctor needed to leave, she just told her about this hosted team foundation server for them to still stay in touch through communication. I know that a lot of her patients from all over the world has this software as a service for them to stay connected and even met up with other patients online. What a really brilliant mind he has and I hope that he still continues that because she is not only helping people physically but also their spirit to stay alive no matter what.
My friend just got divorced with his husband and it is a very difficult time for her these days. It has been a month now and she seems to not coping very well with the divorce and stuff. Her husband has moved on and I don’t know why is she still not doing the same thing. In fact, she was the one who called it quits with him after she found out that he was having an affair with another woman. I know for a fact that it is so difficult to find your loved one in that situation but she made her decision already and she got to move on.
It is not going to help her if she will keep on doing that. Remembering their times together will just make it all worse. I have studied psychology before and I know that one thing you can do to a patient like that is make her turn her attention into something else. I booked a flight to negril jamaica in an all inclusive resorts for the both of us. She needs something like this and most of all, she needs to be out. She can find lots of activities to do there like the one they are having; adult vacations.
If you have a love one who is in high risk of getting themselves loose their mind, the one thing you can think of is to help them. Help them in any way you can because you care for them. Even if they don’t like to be treated that way and they don’t want people meddling with their lives, you have to do the right thing for them, which is to help them. There are many ways you can do to help a person, individual or a loved one for that matter to cope with life and stay intact with reality.
These doesn’t mean that you have to focus on the levels of the situation. I mean if you think that it is only petty and will soon go away, think again. Let me tell you what I mean, for example, you have a friend who has broken up with his boyfriend for almost eight years and she thinks that she is a marrying type already because this is the first time she had a long term relationship. She hates the world and worst of all, she hates herself because she thinks she was not perfect enough. You can try to help her even while staying at home. Try to make her switch her attention to something else. Try learning new things and doing new things like video converter or audio converter stuff. Try searching making dvd ripper online and do it together so she will not feel that she is alone in her journey.
Ever since my father died, my mother seems to be liking it living alone. She doesn’t want us to feel that she is lonely in the days and nights that my father is no longer there. She doesn’t want us to live with her or to live in a home for the aged like her because she will only feel that she is alone. She said that it is better for her to stay there, in the love nest where my father and mother have built their family and their future together. It really amazes me how much they love each other and I hope to gain that destiny in my life someday with my husband now.
Since she doesn’t want to transfer, we have decided to fulfill my father’s promise to her. He has Home plans and wants to redecorate and rebuild the house for my mother. They would have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary before my father passed away and we, their children will fulfill that promise. We thought of having a Contemporary House Plans or French Country House Plans but it is up to her what she likes. I hope that my mother appreciates this and hoping that her love for my father will continue until the end of time.
